He Wants Sex with Another Woman Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: My friend was a virgin when we met. I got his virginity and he admitted to it. He said he felt at the time I was the worthy party and it felt right to make love with me. Now we are engaged. I should tell you I'm 38 and he is 28 and we've known each other for 4 years. He has this issue of wanting to have sex with me and another female at the same time. I'm not into that stuff and I don't know how to handle it. What should I do? Our Suggestion: Lots of people have this issue. In essence you have two different levels of adventuresome sexual interests. This happens ALL the time. One person only likes 1 position. The other person wants to try 3. One person wants to try sex in a car. The other person doesn't. There's no right or wrong here. It is all about different interests. He should NEVER make you do anything you don't want to do. You should never do anything you don't want to do. Part of being in a relationship is making compromises to suit your partner. If you hated, really hated roses, and he liked roses, well he would have to compromise and stop bringing roses into the house. If he decides that he wants a threesome so badly that he is willing to leave you and go find another woman to have that, then that is his choice. Otherwise he has to accept that it is not something you're interested in. --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes