I Like this Guy - We're Not Even Dating - Time for Sex?

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I am 14 and I like this guy alot, and we are kinda close but arent goin out. He is 17. And we have talked about have sex, it would be my first time. Do you think I should?



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You're not even DATING him yet - you're not even kissing or doing any of the beginning steps! The huge danger in dating someone who is far older than you is that he pushes you too quickly into things that aren't appropriate. Would you try to ballet dance Swan Lake before you've even appreciated the first ballet steps? You want to take things slowly and savor every step. Losing your virginity is something you remember for your entire life. It should be something you do with a guy you've dated and done EVERYTHING else with, over a year or two. It shouldn't be something you just leap into with a guy because you think he's cool.

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