I Dream about an Ex

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I have this boyfriend who i really love but there is this other guy who i am falling for.We had sexually relations once to tell the truth it wasn't all that i expected it to be. But i can't seem to get him off my mine i dream about him his kiss and his touch i miss it so badly.But i don't want to leave my boyfriend. What can i do Help Please




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We all have temptations in life, but the point of a real love is that we don't give in to the random temptations that present themselves. If you stayed with your boyfriend for 10 years there would probably be at least 10 different other guys who you were tempted by and felt attracted to over those years. Love is about ignoring the temptations even though they DO exist and standing by the person you have committed yourself to.

You need to ask yourself why you long for another person's touch when you have a guy right there in your life. Are you not communicating well enough with your boyfriend about what you like and don't like? He won't know by magic how to please you. It is YOUR job to give him feedback and guidance! So if you want harder kisses, tell him. If you want softer kisses, tell him. If you want different kinds of intimacy, tell him! Your time with your loved boyfriend should be the best times of your life. And only you can help make it that way.

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