My fiance asked me for money again.

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My fiance asked me for money again. I have lent him over $3000 for a heat pump and have never seen a cent from it back yet. His ex wife gets him into financial binds all the time such as IRS trouble etc.
He asked me for money again, and I don't have any to give him. I got angry and yelled at him and I said I should have to clean up after his ex wife etc. I never cursed etc. Well he got angry at me for talking to him like that and has not spoken to me since--that was 7 days ago. He will not answer my calls, he will answer my emails with pissed off emails. I have apologized, but he won't accept it. What do I do now?




Our Suggestion:
If he won't take your apology, don't give him your hand. Seven days is more than enough time to cool down. How much can you get for the engagement ring?

Remember, if you do marry this man, his ex will not go away. There will be 3 people in the relationship, do you love him enough to live like that?

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




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