She didn't appreciate it! Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: After setting up a dinner date in a quite restaurant and being the perfect gentleman throughout the evening (showing up with a single white rose, holding doors open, pulling seats out, lighting cigarettes, standing when she returns from the restroom) light cocktails at quaint bar and walking her to her door, she quickly enters apt and casually says over her "thanks". Is this worth pursuing or did I overdo it a bit? Our Suggestion: People can *easily* be intimidated by too grand a gesture. They don't know what to do, or they think you "expect" something of them in return. She appreciated it. Maybe she was afraid you were going to do something TOO serious and she wasn't ready for that step. Talk to her, and see how she feels now. Maybe this was just too much for her. --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes