She Thinks of me as a Brother Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: It seems as if me and the girl I'm talking to got to close . Close to the point to where she sees me as a brother figure which is what I didn't intend to do or I don't know if she is joking or what. Me and her where in a car with one of my friends and we where in a arguement just joking around and our friend said you guys are like brother and sister. I was like ya whatever, but then my love interest goes out and says laughing "he is like my brother." I don't know if I just took it the wrong way or what but it ruined the rest of the night. That was the one phrase I wanted her to never say. How can I get it to the point to where she sees me more as a relationship type than a brother. I mean we hang out a lot and I just want her to see me as more. Our Suggestion: First, it's actually a really, really good sign that she feels that close to you. All great relationships are based on a great friendship, and if you guys have that you are WAY ahead of the game. Now you just need to slide that along into a more physical realm. I've put together a page of information on how to slowly slide along from friend to boyfriend/girlfriend: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/friendlover.asp Read through it, and start out slowly. I think you'll find that she's quite happy as you get closer together :) --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes