He Cheated With Me and Tells Me to Wait

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What do I do if I like a boy with a girlfriend. We kissed, and he said they were on the verge of breaking up, but I see them together all the time. He said I should wait for him, but should I if he makes no attempt to break up with his girlfriend?




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Hah, the story of every other woman! Of course he wants you to just hang out and be ready to kiss him whenever he wants, plus he gets his regular girlfriend by his side too. If he was going to break up with his girlfriend, he should have done that before he started kissing you. He's already proven he's willing to cheat and lie to a girlfriend - do you really think he'd somehow "change" if he ever leaves his current girlfriend? It's far more likely he'd just start cheating on you with someone else when the opportunity presented itself. It's what he likes to do.

Give up on him and find someone who isn't taken. Maybe someday his girlfriend will learn about his cheating, lying ways and dump him - but I wouldn't take him in even then. You deserve a guy who will love you and care for you - and not be running around with other women when your back is turned.

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