Our timing is off! Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: Well my boyfriend and I have been dating for a while and we just recently started having sex. We have only had sex 4 times but I have trouble reaching my "peak" and he always goes before I do? Is there something wrong with me? Is there something I can do to get even more pleasure out of sex? thanks Our Suggestion: A new sexual partnership always has hiccups on the way. It'll work out so long as you have open communication between the two of you. Tell him that you wish it would last a little longer, or if it doesn't, then you need him to continue pleasing you until you reach your peak. If he's a sensitive and caring guy, then he'll want to make sure you get as much pleasure out of this as you are. No, there is nothing wrong with you at all, it's very common for the woman to take longer because so much for a woman is emotional connection and intimacy, while for most guys it's just a physical "go-go-go" until it's done. But with some good talking between the two of you, you can nip this in the bud and make sure that you have a satisfying sex life. Good luck! --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes