I think I made a mistake, now how do I get him back?

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My fiancee and I broke up almost a year ago, we were going to get married and we even bought a house together, I wasn't always nice to him, he would nag at me over talking to my childrren's father, and I just couldn't take it anymore so, I told him to leave, and now I miss him, He treated me wonderful for example roses, candles, wine, all the love I wanted, I want him back. but the problem is, is that he just had a baby with someone else, and I am devestated I think all my chances of us getting back together I blew, and I am sorry I made the mistake, what can I do?, we still own the house together, and I still have my wedding dress.



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Some mistakes aren't fixable, they are only there to learn from. It sounds to me like he's moved on with his life and found someone new to build a new life with. You're going to need to do the same. I understand your hurt and confusion over this... it's hard to let go of dreams and wishes for a better relationship than the one you had, and it's hard to start over again. But I think that's what you're going to have to do, since it's obvious he has. The next person that you have a relationship with will be better for you because you're going to be more aware of what you want in a relationship and what you are and aren't willing to put up with. But getting over the old relationship will be tough.

My thoughts are with you.

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