Me and my girlfriend are on a break becuase I'm to paraniod

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Me and my girlfriend are on a break becuase im to paraniod and over protected. The only reason why was becuase i thought she was cheating on me with this guy who she tells me hes like a brother to her. When i ask her if there is going on she tells me that she loves me to much to do that and that she couldnt do that to me. The guy who i talked to before told me that hes not that kind of person. Well since we r on break she told me that she still loves me and yes we r still together (as is still going out). That kid tells me to stay postive and that she loves me and if i need any help talk to him. I just need advice on what i should think. My main concern if she is cheating on me with that guy. from what i've been hearing from the both of them it seems like nothing is going on u never know so can some one plz help me!!! p.s we been going out for 9 months




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You have to let go of the suspicion and jealousy. If you don't, you're sure to lose this relationship. Both your girlfriend and your friend have said that they haven't done anything and they show you that they haven't done anything, so let it go. Trust in your girlfriend and trust that her love for you has blocked off everyone else.

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