I'm obsessed! Is there a cure? Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: I just recently started going with this guy and I really like him. The only problem is, I can't stop thinking about him, and it's driving me nuts! I want to call him every minute of the day, and I'm afraid if I'm too obsessive over the whole thing, I might lose him. Is there a way to stop this overanxiousness and obsession? Anonymous Our Suggestion: There's no real way to get over these sorts of feelings. They will fade on their own, and you can help it by laughing at yourself when you find yourself obsessing again. Put it in perspective by saying, yeah this is fun, but it's just an obsession. When you're around him, shove the obsession into the back of your mind and deal with him as a close friend and boyfriend, but don't gush all over him, he'll hate it. But in the privacy of your room or in your school notebooks, feel free to write as many poems to him as you want, or write his name a dozen times or come up with names for your kids, whatever. It's an enjoyable sort of crazy emotion. Just remain realistic about it and you'll be ok. Good luck! --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes