She's Not in the Mood Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: My girlfriend has been very stressed lately and she hasn't been in the mood. What ways could i get her in the mood, and approch the whole sex thing in general diffrently. So it's not the same approach every time. please give me some insight on the whole matter. Our Suggestion: You're looking at the wrong issue. It's not that she's not interested in sex. It's that other things are *wrong* and therefore she's not interested in sex. You can't just fix the symptom. You have to fix the *problem* otherwise the symptoms are always there. I have a whole page on dealing with lack of sexual desire - http://www.flirtingclass.com/serious/iss_loss.shtml but in essence you have to help her with her stress! When she's feeling less stressed, she'll feel sexual again. But if you add even MORE stress onto her plate by pushing her for sex, you're just going to make it worse. Even if you think you're trying to push her "gently". --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes