She's Everything to Me Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: I love a girl in my class from last year but i'm not able to tell her there's another guy also who's friend of her. Whenever i come close to her i feel really nervous i'm damn serious about her i'm afraid of being refused and i can't live without her. What should i do ? Our Suggestion: First, you CAN live without her. You need to separate your desire to date her with your own self esteem. No girl wants a guy that is a wet noodle unless she's there. A girl wants a guy that is able to stand on his own, able to live on his own, to take care of himself. Yes, it would be wonderful if she could share your life with you, but if you only could admire her from afar, you would live. So then your question is how you show her that you admire her. You become her great friend. All relationships are built on great friendships. Talk to her. Enjoy spending time with her. Go places with her, enjoy her hobbies with her. Once you are doing all of those things, then you develop a real love. What you have from afar is admiration of what you THINK she is. What you have after months of being with her daily is a realistic appreciation of what she REALLY is, which is love. --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes