Wants to date an older man

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I am a 20 yr. old female, looking to start a relationship. I currently work with a guy who seems like "the one". I want to approach him, but he's 11 yrs. older than me! I beleive age is just a number, but my mom seems to differ. I'm afraid of rejection because of age. We talk and can joke with each other at a different level than anyone else at work. I will be moving soon and I invited him, jokingly, to help me move. He responded no, but you can invite me over after. I don't know if I took it and ran with it or if it was just supposed to be funny. How should I approach him...if I should at all?




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I would certainly advise that you listen to your mother's reasoning. It is probably very sound. Think about what she says seriously. If you are still sure you want to have a relationship with him, ask him out for dinner or some other fun activity.

Good luck,
George

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