Hitting boyfriend Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: I have been together with my boyfriend for 3 months. He proposed me for marriage but I am really worried and want to know him better. Whats woories me is that he sometimes jokingly hits me and if i hit him back he gets angry and even hits me much harder . If I ask him why he hits me and I shouldn't he says ýou are a girl and you shouldn't raise your hand on me". Tha't worries me if after marriage he will be hitting me because i think he wants to make me used with this behaviour of his. He does it jokingly but it hurts me. I ma confused with this treatment , please advice. Our Suggestion: I am sorry you are in this situation and you are wise to be concerned. Your boyfriend is being abusive to you. He will continue if you get married and things will probably get worse. My advice is to dump him as soon as possible. Good luck, George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes