Engagement ring not forthcoming Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: My boyfriend and i have been going outfor quite sometime. Well about 9 mo. ago he asked me to marry him. he gave me his class ring and said ill get u a real engagement ring soon. now 9 mo later im im still ringless. sometimes i even start arguments because im upset that i don't have a ring yet. i have sometimes asked him about when im gonna get the ring and all he can say is soon but when is soon? then at the same time i don't want to feel like im pressureing him and then also it make me feel as if i don't deserve to have a ring or something like that. but then why would he ask me if he didn't want to marry me? was it just someway of keeping off the market so to speak?i just don't know? Please can i get some advise??? Our Suggestion: My best guess is that he can't afford a nice ring for you. If he does have the money, try to pin him down on how soon is soon. Or, unfortunately, perhaps he has lost the ring feeling. You should sound him out on that subject. I agree with you that he should have given you a ring by now. Good luck, George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes