The green eyed monster I've become us ruining our lives

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hi my name is caz,i have read your columns and i too believe that i have a big problem.me and my partner go out often and it always ends up in rows i always get jealous when he talks to other woman recently i hit him over it this is not the first time it has happened i feel so bad i always used to be a nice person but jealousy has taken up a big part of my life i hate the way i act when im out and my boyfriend said hed leave me if this kept up please help i want to go back to being the nice person i was before and not the greeneyed monster ive became its ruining my life.



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There is no easy solution for jealousy. I'm sure you've read enough to know that is is caused by lack of self-esteem. Have some mantras ready when your eyes start turning green. For example, "I am a great person and he loves me." Or, "I'm attractive, after all he loves me and nobody else." Say things like this every time you get jealous. Also read these tips: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/23682

Good luck,
George

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com



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