My Boyfriend Loves Tickling

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Visitor's Question:
I think my boyfriend has a thing with tickling. I don't mind it so much accept when he goes for my feet. I think he would be embarrased if i brought it up, so how do i know if this is a sexual thing for him or just fun and if it is a sexual thing, how do i satisfy him?




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Tickling is a great combination of touch, control, and fun. Touch is KEY in any relationship so tickling is a great way to be able to touch each other without being overtly sexual. It's about fun because most people laugh and enjoy tickling. And it's about control, because the tickler has great control over the ticklee, making them helpless.

Anything can be sexual ... and anything can be innocent. It all comes down to how the person interprets it. If he enjoys tickling, it doesn't really matter if it goes into a sexual column or not. It's a fun activity. It might be he loves tickling (for the control) but doesn't like to be tickled. It could be he loves being tickled (for the sense of trust and helplessness) and enjoys that more than tickling someone. So play with the tickling, see which he likes better, and have fun!

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