Am I a virgin? Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: i am 18.i have never had sex but i have done so called 'petting' with my b/f.he would put his finger into my vagina but it would hurt to the certain point and never got far.when we last time had petting after a couple of days i noticed bleeding but the blood looked like more period blood,it was dark at first then lighter ad then dark again.it lasted about 7 days.it was a very nervous period for me and i thought i might had a premature period.please tell me can i have lost my virginity? Our Suggestion: In my opinion, fingering does not count as losing your virginity. If you are wondering whether your hymen is broken or very thick then you should ask your doctor. Believe me the doctor will not be embarrassed. Good luck, George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes