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Visitor's Question:
I am a 16 year old who recently fell for one of my friends. I really like her, but I am unsure as to whether or not she feels the same for me. I really want to go out with her and have on many occasions come close to doing it, but I am worried if I do and she says no then our friendship will be over. Many of my friends have told me to go for it, but I am unsure. Should I ask her out? And if so how is the best way to do it so that if she does say no we can remain friends?




Our Suggestion:
Since you are friends with her you are half way there.

Tell her that you are developing feelings for her and would like to go out on a date. If her answer is vague, ask her how she feels about you.

This is a non-threatening way to bring up the subject in a way that will not scare her off and ruin your friendship.

Hope she says yes!
George

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




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