we're only 14, would it be right if we had sex at this point in our lives

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months and we have fallen completely in love in that time. Our parents don't approve of us french-kissing ot making out. But we've gone much further, touching each other. Its really hard to talk to my parents about my boyfriend, because I'm afraid I'll slip up and say somthing about frenching... Also, we're only 14, would it be right if we had sex at this point in our lives, we've talked about marrying when we get out of school, and we love each other more than anything. Thank You.




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It is not ok for you to have sex at age 14.

You are way too immature and haven't known each other long enough. If you are going to get married then wait until you are 16 or 18 before you have sex.

You have a long life ahead of you so don't rush so quickly into it.

Another nice thing about waiting is that you don't have to get worried about getting pregnant.

Good luck!
George

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




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