my boyfriend is much more mature than i am Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: my boyfriend is much more mature than iam.and he is going through a bad phase.the problem here is that i dont understand him so well.he feels i m not able to support him in his times of need.and he is also very possesive about me. he is very sensitive.and gets hurt easily.and once i hurt him i have a real tough time patching up.saying sorry does not help at all.how else can i pamper him n patch up with him? Our Suggestion: On the contrary, YOU seem more mature than your boyfriend. He is the one with problems, not you. His problems are neediness, possessiveness, gets hurt easily. You seem to be mature in your ability to analyze the situation. The key to solving his problems is to talk about them. This is a primary form of support and consideration. Make sure your conversations are deep, meaninfgul, trusting, caring, and friendly. Try to get to the root of what's hurting him. It won't be easy because my guess is that he won't be able to open up. But keep trying! Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes