she said that she wanted to restart our relationship, forgetting everything and starting anew

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my gf recently told me that we're drifting apart and she loves me lesser now, but she still wants us to work out. she said that she wanted to restart our relationship, forgetting everything and starting anew. im wondering, since she loves me lesser now, will she love me back? what should i do? does pressure make people feel this way? if im creating pressure by asking some sort of questions, does it cause us to drift apart?



Our Suggestion:
The last time you wrote, it was about too much arguing.

I suggested that you stop fighting and begin agreeing with your girlfriend. Did you follow my advice? If you did, then your girlfriend may miss the excitement and passion of fighting.

If, on the other hand, you are still fighting, perhaps she wants to go back to your lovey-dovey days when everything was sweet.

Ask her what she wants when she says she wants to start over again. Come up with some mutually agreeable goals and work away at them. This will involve asking questions, of course so be prepared to do it.

Good luck!
George

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