Now I find out he and my wife are having an affair

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My wife and I have been together for 7 years. We met in highschool but have only been married for 6 months. She just started a new job a couple months ago. A man there had trouble with his wife cheating on him. Now I find out he and my wife are having an affair. I confronted her and left. Now she says she loves me but it seems like she is waiting for me to ask her back. Should I try to mend this relationship or leave and should I wait for her to take steps to fix it since she is at fault?




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The question is do you love her and are you willing to take part in the hard work that it would take to put your marriage back together again?

Maybe your first step should be to see a marriage counselor together and get professional advice from someone who can ask the right questions in person.

I think that's the way to go if you want her back and have a happy marriage.

Good luck!
George

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