Many people are telling me he is interested in me because he calls me everyday

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I have been out 3 times with a guy i have known my whole life. Our families have been friends since before I was born.He is very shy and it took a lot for him to call and ask me out. However, his last realationship ended about 6 months ago with a girl he had been with for three years. She cheated on him and broke his heart several times so i know it hurt him pretty bad. Many people are telling me he is interested in me because he calls me everyday,and they say this a big deal for him because he is so shy. I also know that some people wanted him to call and ask me out because they think we would be good together. It's a little difficult for me because I have not really talked to him in the past three years. I am starting to see him as more then a friend but i want to be careful.I don't want to be rebound. We have been on three dates and he hasn't kissed me yet. Is he taking it slow because of his heartbreak? I also feel like i need to get to know him better. What is your advice for getting closer to a shy guy who has been hurt in the past without being to pushy but wanting him to know that i am starting to have feelings? Thanks




Our Suggestion:
If you want him to know that you are starting to have feelings for him then just tell him.

If you want to kiss, then kiss him.

Life is a lot simpler if you just do what you want to do (without hurting others). Don't worry so much about what other people will think.

Good luck!
George

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




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