I have been married for 9 years But I have been seeing someone else for 10 years

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Hi, I have been married for 9 years and love my husband
very much. We have a 2 year old son together. But I have
been seeing someone else for 10 years. I am really in love
with this person too. He gives me everything I don't get at
home.But he is also married. I have became addicted to him. Even though I know I should give him up, I don't know if I could ever stop cheating. My husband is real selfish and does not give me everything I need at home. I can't figure
out if its the excitement that I want or is it this person
that I really love the most. He says we need to break it off
for awhile but will pick it back up in a couple of months.
He thinks we are getting to serious. {little late for that}
We have never discussed leaving our spouses. We just enjoy each other company. What should I do?



Our Suggestion:
Seems you have opportunity to get away from your husband, so take advantage of that time to see a professional counselor.

You need more help that an email can give. You are probably caught up in the excitement and the love you feel with your lover. But that isn't going to last forever.

Get some help to deal with the present and prepare for the future.

Good luck!
George

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com



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