We broke up because of my constant nagging and calling

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I just met my ex like three months ago.He's 29 and I'm 20.We broke up because of my constant nagging and calling.I had a bad attitude problem and he said I got to get myself together before we can get back together.I miss him and just want to call him all the time.Please tell me what to do?The only reason I had a bad attitude problem because he was busy all the time and I hardly got a phone call from him.It just made me feel like he didn't want me. I understand he has a very demanding job but I always thought that if you cared about a person you still made time for them.Am I being unreasonable?Help!!!!!




Our Suggestion:
He told you straight out what the problem is.

Now your problem is to decide whether you want to deal with his concerns. He said you are nagging, calling too much, and have a bad attitude.

Find a compromise with him where you will only call twice a week and you will stop nagging. Can you do that? It may be necessary if you really want him back.

Respect his feelings, if you don't he will dump you for good.

Hope this helps!
George

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