Breaking the Ice Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: i can't get a date because i feel that a girl i see walking down the roadside or in my school or class i have never met her before how do i approach or talk to her without looking like a perfect stranger. i mean things like pick up lines to attract her to me. how do i know if she would shout or embarrass me cos i will feel bad if she ignores me and i hate that from a girl. what then do i say to her to make her interested in a perfect stranger like me. i don't know her she doesn't know me how do we connect or get to know each other. Our Suggestion: I have a whole area on breaking the ice, which is what you call it when two people who don't know each other make that initial contact - http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveSCat/65376 You do NOT USE PICK UP LINES. Your aim is not to PICK UP a girl. Your aim should be to be a FRIEND to this girl. People talk to people they like, they hang out with people they like, they date people they like. You need to be a friend to her if you want to date her. Being a friend isn't about 'tricking her with cool sayings'. It's about listening to her, talking to her, sharing her interests. --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes