Going Out Secretly Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: i'm in 8th grade and this guy I like is in 7th grade we're in a mixed contium and he likes me and i like him but he not allowwed to go out with girls. He can go out with me secretly but his sister will tell on him. What do I do? Our Suggestion: Doing things secretly is never the answer. Your relationship should be founded on trust, love, honesty. Not on sneaking around behind people's backs and lying. A relationship that involves lying is one that is really going to hurt you both. You'll feel badly because of the lies, that bad feeling will get associated in your mind with the relationship, and really harm it. The core of any good relationship is being best friends. That's THE most important part of any boyfriend-girlfriend situation. So work on that first. Be best friends to each other. Do things together, have fun together, talk together. You don't have to "go out". The same emotion is there between friends, and many times the best friends are MORE close than people who date are. --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes