One of my major problems is a found naked pictures of various women on his camera phone

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I have been dating a guy for about 8 weeks. He is in the military, lives about 45 min away, and is almost three years younger than me (he's 21). At first none of this bothered me. One of my major problems is a found naked pictures of various women on his camera phone. He says it's nothing and he would erase them. He won.t let me see his phone so I do not think he has. Should I see this as someone with bad character and someone who doesn't respect women or our relationship, which would call for me to break up with him. He says it's like dirty mags or even porn, but it's not cause he has been with these women and they are on his phone which is always around him. I also feel neglected at times because we rarely talk lately and I believe communication is the key. I almost feel he is either too young or too immature to know how to treat a woman in a relationship. I will be 24 in less than 2 months. SHould I break up with him now knowing all this or wait to see if things will get better? I want the relationship to work out but don't want to be a fool in the process.



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He does sound a bit immature.

He should delete those pictures and let you see the phone.

You should stand by your feelings on this.

Good luck!
George

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