the conversation goes silent Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: Theres a girl in my band class and shes a drummer along with me, every chance i get i sit beside her and try to talk to her. But no matter what i try within just a couple minutes the conversation goes silent.iv tried everything from weather, to favourites, to simple questions about band, and nothing has worked. Any suggestions? Our Suggestion: Sounds like she has a major case of shyness. Keep trying, once you find something she responds to then remember to bring it up again the next time you have a chance to talk. Have a list of things to talk about in your mind... a trip you took during the summer, your teachers, friends, family, sports, hobbies. Once you have this list, you will never run out of things to talk about. Ask if her parents are strict... do they let her date? Whatever. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes