it seem that we are drifting apart Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: i have been seeing this girl for about 4 mounths i asked her out but she said that she didn't know what she wanted right now. we are still very close, we have tried to have sex three different times but i have not been able to get it up, is this normal? also i got a new job and haven't been able to see very much and it seem that we are drifting apart, what shoul i do? Our Suggestion: You didn't say whether you are a virgin or not. If you are, then it is probably nerves that keep you from successfully having sex. Just keep at it. If you are not a virgin then I don't know the answer. Keep on doing what you have been doing in your relationship and see if things work out. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes