It seems like I'm always the one doing the work to make plans and she never takes the initiative

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There is this girl and I don't know if she likes me. We are friends but she sometimes blows me off. I'll call to see a movie and she'll say she'll call but never does. It seems like I'm always the one doing the work to make plans and she never takes the initiative. Is she blowing me off and sayin she doesn't like me. I always talk to her on AIM and she never says HEY first. But then again when we do hang out we will have gerat conversations and have alot of fun. She'll give me hugs in the hallway and say hi very emphatically. My friend was talkiing about me and she said "Ohh I know him." with a lot of excitement. I really don't get her. Please Help. Could she be playing hard to get?




Our Suggestion:
Sounds like she likes you so there is no question there.

The answer to why she doesn't take the initiative sometimes may just be the way she is and you will have to live with it.

The next time you ask her to the movies and she says she'll call back... just say that's ok, I'll call you. Or ask her about when she will call back and tell her you just want to make sure you are home to get her call.

Good luck, George

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