her boyfrienbd would come over to the table once in a while and go back to the bar

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Ok, I know you guys are busy and probably get this question a million times but I figured why not? My friends can't even answer this. there is a girl I work with and her and I have become friends. She exhibits alot of signs that say she is interested such as...talking to me, remembering everything I tell her, inviting me out for drinks, giving me her cell phone number and actually calling me back when I call her etc. The kicker is...she has a boyfriend of one year. I just met the guy when she invited me out for drinks. I knew he would be there but in the two months I have known her, she mentioned him only twice and referred to him as the guy she is "seeing". I don't mind having a girl that's a friend and I don't mind knowing her boyfriend/husband BUT..I like this girl and all these great and wonderful things she is saying and doing are messing with my head and making me wonder if there is something there or not. I have plenty of girls that are taken and love hanging out with me but they have headed down some crazy paths. The night we went out last, she sat at my table and chatted with me most of the night and her boyfrienbd would come over to the table once in a while and go back to the bar. Bottom Line....am I an idiot or what? should I chalk it up to a good friendship and that's it? Does she like me? Oh the agony! I would appreciate the input please!!
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First off, what does she say when you ask her what's going on?

That should give you the answer to your question.

If you haven't asked yet, it's time you did.

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Good luck with this strange situation! George

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