how do i get her to brake up with boyfriend of three months and get back together with me?

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i was seeing this girl for 1 1/2 years. i was very selfish and immature and i hurt her feelings alot. we had alot of good times and alot of bad times. more good than bad though. we got in a big fight one night because i went to the bar and didn't tell her. she found me and flipped otu on me. we were best friends, really close, u know. we never spoke to each other agian after that night and it was both our faults. we have finally spoken after 5 months. i wanted her back before i found out that she had a new boyfriend. i still want her back even though my family hates her because she was immature too. she harrassed my sister because my sisiter poked her fat nose in our business. i want to get back with her. she was the only girl i ever felt true love from. i didn't even know what love was until i lost the only girl that ever truly loved me. im still heart broken. how do i get her to brake up with boyfriend of three months and get back together with me?




Our Suggestion:
There is no good advice for getting her to break up.

However, the best advice is to become a good friend again.

To do this, give her a call once a week just to ask her how she is doing, to let her know that you still care, and to maintain contact. Don't dwell on your relationship or she might feel pressured. Be upbeat. Keep the calls short... 15 mins or so.

If you can become good friends again she might drop her new boyfriend.

For more advice see this website:

http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/9

Good luck! George

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