How can we be together and not hurt our kids? Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: I'm still in love with my ex after 16 years.Were both married and have chilren but want to be with each other! How can we be together and not hurt our kids? He's also in California and I'm in Florida! Please help me!!!We love each other more now than ever but can't live with the fact that our children will get hurt the most!What can we do? Our Suggestion: You need to see a professional counsellor and quick. You can't split up two families without the children getting hurt. You and your ex could make the sacrifice and stop contacting each other. Meanwhile think of these questions: Who will get custody of the kids? Where will you live? What about financial considerations? How will your family and friends react? Are you should your new relationship will work out? Your b/f should ask himself the same questions and get counselling too. This is a severely important step you are considering. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes