We have had trust issues over this past year

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I'm in a relationship for about two years now and I know that this is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. We have, however, had trust issues over this past year due to my lack of communication and childish acts. I am trying to change...really trying. I have been totally honest with him about everything since we almost broke up a few months ago because I don't want to lose him. I tell him everything...I mean, everything! (and I plan to be this way from now on) Lately, I've been more vocal about how much I love him by hugging and kissing him more, saying "Ilove you" more, and sending little text messages to his phone while he's at work saying that I love him and I thank God for him staying in my life. Today, after sending a cute mushy text message, he told me that when I get mushy with him, he gets suspicious that I'm doing something wrong. That really upset me because I don't know if I should even bother TRYING so hard if he is just going to shut me down. I understand his feelings of mistrust because of our past, but I'm am trying to rectify it...I just feel like he's not letting me. Please help!




Our Suggestion:
Since you tell him everything, tell him what you told me about what you are doing and why. That should relieve his anxiety.

Good luck! George

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