So I always stop and tell him not today Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. We are really serious and love eachother more then anything. My question has to do with sex. We havent had sex yet because I wasnt ready. I was scared of the pain and bleeding, but in time, I started fingering myself. And I can do that now so easily and anytime. But my question is, we still havent had sex. I just wanted to know if I can finger myself in and out easily, then when we have sex and he goes inside me, is it going to hurt me still? When we try, thats my only fear, is of it hurting. So I always stop and tell him not today. If you could let me know, id appreciate it. thanks. Our Suggestion: The odds are very, very good that your hymen has already been broken or that you never had a hymen. So you should feel no pain during intercourse. If for some reason you do feel pain then just ask him to stop. But I don't think you will. Make sure you use condoms and be careful. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes