His friend is gay and used to be in love with my boyfriend

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I am very jealous of my boyfriend's best friend. They've known each other for over 15 years. My bf is 27 he's friend is 24.

This friend, isn't in my eyes... a good friend. He makes my boyfriend do pot with him. Also, this "friend" also drinks a lot ... he's a bad influence on him.

I hate how my boyfriend says how much fun he has had with him when they were young or whenever they hang out together.

I can tell his friend doesn't like me and wants me out of the picture ASAP. I find his friend fake... as the way he talks to me or is around me. I also don't like how he calls my house or cell phone is search of my boyfriend.

He's friend is gay and use to be in love with my boyfriend. My bf is straight...

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Our Suggestion:
There is a reasonable chance that your boyfriend is bi.

To determine this have a long, deep, honest, loving, and trusting conversation with your boyfriend about this friend and toward the middle ask him straight out whether there is any physical activity between the two of them. You might think he is straight, but that is something that is hard to determine.

If he says he is straight, then your options are fairly limited. He has been friends with this guy for over 15 years and there is little you can expect to do to erase that friendship. If you haven't been hanging out with them, maybe you should start. You may not be welcome at first, but this may be the way to being a better part of your boyfriends life.

Good luck! George

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