I have two things to ask about Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: i have two things to ask about im 16 years old and earlier this year, i was with my 1st serious girlfriend. it lasted a few months and as it came round to it, we were alone in the house and we put a film on. we made out a number of times that day and we both agreed that i should fingered her before she gave me a handjob, just incase. i fingered her but being extremley inexperienced, i barely got anythin from her, and i she didnt mind that, and i found out that she thought i had stopped cuz i felt uncomfortable. i hadnt, but there was a lack of communication and it was both our first time at giving/recieving. she then gave me a handjob, but unfortunatly, she was at it for ages, i mean, AGES, and it got to the point her wrist was hurting and she was bored.it was feeling good but it was nowhere near orgasm. i really dont no why, ive never had any troubles on my own. i didnt feel at all nervous, i was glad she was doing it. she was thinking it was her technique that was the problem, i was thinking it was me. do you think it was me that was the problem or her, or even both???? my second matter is that i am quite attached to this other girl, and i think she likes me, we get on, flirt and hav a good time. something may happen between us, and she is definatly not inexperienced at these things. but now i really do have somthing to put my mind off me if i am considering her giving me a handjob, if it goes further between us. i now have the feeling of a very bad first experience of a handjob and now i really am nervous about the next time someone is about to give me a handjob. can you help me on this situation please???? thanx very much, i would very much appreciate help on both matters Our Suggestion: These things take time before you feel comfortable about them. Both giving and receiving. The best thing for the male and female to do is to guide the other's hand and show them exactly what feels best. Do this to orgasm. That's about all there is to it. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes