I feel that he is seeing someone on his job. Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: My boyfriend volunteers to work overtime even on New Year's Day. He sleeps all the time throughout the day. He works night shift. He has a roommate that works the same shift, and he does not sleep like that, and he spends quality time with his girlfriend. I feel that he is seeing someone on his job. I am having this gut feeling that he is cheating on me. When I call him, he does not answer. I went by his apartment unexpectly, and no one came to the door. I don't know. Comments. Our Suggestion: Why not have an honest chat with him and ask him if he is cheating? Make it very clear that you want an honest answer and that you are prepared for the worst. BTW, I don't see why he can't spend quality time with you in the evening. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes