I just told him not to lie to me

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i've recently ended a 1 year relationship with my boyfriend.He made me feel very low, he would never ring me and will only ring me after 1 or 2 monnths and ask me if i can see him. he would come , sleep at my place and wakes up and leave promising to see me soon. I rang him last week, he had friends around he just started up a fight and called me a bitch. It really hurted me and i decided to stop seeing him.I began chatting with a guy i met in the internet and met him last week. I really really liked him. I wasn't confident at all about myself. I felt like i have nothing to attract him.He is good looking and smart. . He did tell me i'm beautiful but couldn't believe him i just told him not to lie to me.i just felt i can't attract such kind of a guy.I told him that i have been very stressed last year and thats why i've gained weight and i was actually trying to hide myself didn't take my coat out eventhough it was very very warm.He asked me what i'm trying to hide as i couldn't look at him directly . He did rang me again the next day asked if i could go out with him and would pick me up from my house.. I agreed , but he didn't come. I rang him the next day and he told me he was sorry he had a call from his family and he had to go to them. He rang me yesterday very late at night and i was asleep ,he asked about me and told me he would ring me the next day.i like this guy, but i'm afraid of having another bad relationship. how should i deal with this.what if he doesn't ring, should i ring him? i just feel he thinks i'm a troubled person,needy and having lots of problems and is scared.i don't want to loose him. please advice how can i make him interested.




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If he doesn't call this time then my advice is to let him go.

You've had enough bad treatment during the past year so why enter another relationship of a similar nature?

Good luck! George

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