I think my boyfriend is unattractive

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I've been with my boyfriend for two years, since I was sixteen. I know that I love him and I am attracted to him in the sense that I like kissing him but when I really look at him I think hes unattractive. If I wasn't in love with him I probably wouldn't want to date him. Even when we met I wasn't like attracted to him in that way. So since I've always felt this in the back of my mind it kinda makes me feel guilty and confused about how I feel.





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You say you love him and that he is attractive enough to kiss.

But when you look at him objectively should see he is unattractive.

Try not to be guilty about your honest feelings. Of course you would never tell him how you feel, that would be too hurtful.

If you ever lose your loving feelings for him because of this then you would have to leave him. That would be unfortunate, but sometimes that's the way life is.

Good luck! George

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