He gets so mad and can't get out of it Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: What do i do when he has problems nothing can help and he doesnt neccessarily take it out on me, but he feels when i try to make him feel better that im preaching to him. He says that he has to think about things and that is how he has always been, and its how his family has been. I tend to wear my heart on my sleave and even though i want to know he cares, and he will say it, somehow i feel that i care to much. I have never dealt with someone that can get so mad and cant get out of it. What should i do? Should i just not say anything, or should i still try to boost his ego and make him feel better even though it doesnt seem to help and i only feel hurt. Whenever this happens we seem to get into a fight. How can i curb this? Is there anything that can help? Our Suggestion: You didn't say how long these periods of anger last. If they are short term... say an evening then the best thing to do now is to ignore him. If they last for days then your problem is difficult. My advice is to wait until he is in a good mood and suggest professional counseling. Tell him his moods are starting to threaten your relationship and you don't want to be with someone like him for the rest of your life. Hopefully this will get his attention! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes