I'm 25 and have fallen for an older married woman



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I'm 25 and have fallen for an older married woman. She even has 2 daughters just 4 years younger than me. But it's not the age that is hard, its the being married. For last 4 months we've been sneaking around just to be with eachother. We have even been intimate on many occasions. I tell her I lover her and I do...but she never tells me in return. She however admits she still loves her husband. How can you love your husband and be cheating on him? The longer this goes on the closer we get and harder it becomes. I've never known a love like this and fear I may never again but I don't know what to do, what she is doing?




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She exploits you


She is exploiting you for the sex and excitement. Enjoy it for what its worth and nothing more. Your feelings are getting involved and this relationship was based on lies and deceit. NO GOOD! You must not continue this unless you're sure you can handle a strictly intimate relationship. Cause that is whats seems to be the foundatioon here

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