i know i messed up....will it ever be the same again??We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female I cheated on my boyfriend of six years. Though to my surprise, he is willingly able to work through this situation. But I honestly do not believe that it will ever be the same again because the cause of my infidelity always occurs and is always going to remain in the back of his mind. I know what I did was completely wrong, but all I really want now is to work and obtain the realtionship that we used to have. The only thing is that it is hard and frustrating and it is constantly hurting him as well as our relationship. My question is, will the actions of my infidelity ever be forgotten? Will the happiness that used to once be present ever exist again? I love him so much and I should be very greatful that my boyfriend is willing to work out the problem. But will it ever be the same again? User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Be happy appearently not it wont be forgotten , your guilt leads to hurting the person you love so there for it a posibility that everything can go back to normal if you let it dont get upset everyone does cheat on the person they love but your love is strong so be good to hurt him again you cheated on him to find something he didnt have or other reasons why well ou are lucky he is trying work it out most guys will dump you see what a good guy you have its rare to find guy like that so be happy for what u have The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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