With two men and love both of themWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female I'm not sure what to do. I have been with my high school sweet heart for almost four years now. Things were great, but I started cheating on him about a year and a half into out relationship. The man that I am cheating on him with is a lot older than me and also married. I have fallen in love with this man. I love my high school sweet heart and wish things could work out between him and I but there is no trust there. I left the one I was cheating on him with for a while, and nothing got better so I ended up going bach to the married man. He claims he is going to get a divorce when I am out of school, which isn't too far away. I know things are not good between them, but I'm not sure if he will ever leave. For some reason I cannot get rid of the high school sweet heart. I do love him very much, but I feel very comfortable with him and I feel like that is the part of the problem. I would choose the married man if her were divorced. I hate the feeling of the going in between. I just need help to figure out how I can get rid of the high school sweet heart for good. We will break up, and eventually get back together. I believe and have good reason to believe that he is cheating as well. I know I should not be with the married man either, but I am so emotionally involved with him. Please provide some advice of what I should do. I am an emotional wreck. I have always been the type person that knows cheating is wrong and I hate doing it, but I keep doing it. Please help. User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female Think i think you need to wake up and smell the cooffee, you should see that this man is using u he will never leave his wife for you, even if he does what makes you think that he wont do the same thing to you.. and you need to let go of the poor guy you are cheeting on, stop feeling sorry for your self and stop making the high school lover your other option. you are keeping him just incase things dont work out with the married man...you know it is wrong so stop it...you will not only break your high school lovers heart if you go on with the marreid man but you will be braeking up a home the man probably even has children... so think very deep about this and dont be selfish...think about the people involved as well... The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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