Two year separationWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7yrs. And in the six year he went alway, and got some girl pregnant. He told me about the girl, and yes I was very hurt. But I thought we could work through it. But when she came down so he could c his son things change. He started acting different. His mom thinks she is ugly, and plus she is upset by the whole thing. Anyway, he said he wanted to be friends, cause it wouldn't be easy starting were we left off. I went along with it, but it was to hard and I just stop talking to him. He said he wants to b there for his son. But at the same time he said he can't choose between me and her. I have not talk to him in almost 2 years. But me and his mom still kind of write to each other. I love him so much, and I still think about him everday. Its driving me crazy. And I know he miss me to. We went through so much together. But I just can't be the one to try to find him and tell him how I feel again. He would have to do that. My question is to u. Do u think he will ever come around. I don't know what's wrong with him. I know he still love me, but I just don't know if I sould forget about him User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Don't give up It's easier said then done, to tell some one to move on and get over it. I was with my ex for 3 years and now we have been separated for almost a year and I'm still not over him. I've tried everything I can think of. Books, friends, family, keeping busy, school etc. And I'm Still not over him. Tell him how you feel, so you know if there is ever a chance between you to again. You need to know how he feels, so you can either get back together or move on. Have a talk with him, be open and Honest. Better then keeping it in, and pining for him. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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