I am 8 months pregnant and my ex broke up with me when I was about a month and a half along



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I am 8 months pregnant and my ex broke up with me when I was about a month and a half along. He hasn't helped me with this pregnancy and wants me to give this baby his last name. I don't think he has the right if he doesn't want the help. I guess what I am trying to say is do you think he has the right? And how do I get over someone I love and am having a child with?




User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
add the name later


my boyfreind left me too and then he came back around when they baby was born if he is like this do u really want him to raise your baby i thought that ws the most impt thing wrong im 17 i live in hell now i h ave never been so miserable in my life just make sure people around you are there to help you and u give that baby YOUR last name he has NO SAY you can always change it later. If he is not at the hospital to sign the birth certificate she/he cannot have his last name anyways so see how he acts then add the name later.

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