does she like me or not!?

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im 16 years old. I work with this girl who i realy realy like and is a year older than me. we have been talking for almost a month now, ive told her that i like her and she said that she likes me but ive herd from one of her friends that shea trying to break a relationship between one of her friends so she can date this dude and im not sure if shes telling the truth to me or not.. So im comming to you for help! If you could please do so help me out with this... Advice
It sounds like her interest is in this other guy first, and with you as a 'backup plan' - which I am sure you will agree is not really fair to you. Either confront her on this (nicely!), or move on. Tell her you would like to date her and ask if she likes you. If she hesitates in answering you, you will have the answer to your question. Maybe later on she will forget about this other fellow and realize how great you are! But don't carry a torch for someone whose heart lies elsewhere. You deserve more!

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